Hips & Curves

Heyyyy Divas!!

Today I thought we should explore our most sensual side. The side that makes us feel like us!

SEX!

Its nothing more gratifying then to have a man that loves all our curves! Thank the lawd for men that love some women with meat on their bones. Men who doesn't care about cellulite, dimples, fat or rolls (not the ones you cook in the oven either) but loves "being" with us sexually. It could be our pretty face that lures them in, or our abundance of confidence, that twinkle in our eyes, or the fact that they possibly is about to have the time of their lives with a bomb diggity chick. But the thought of some strong muscular arms holding us up in ways we couldn't ever imagine with ease, and the utter deposition of some rough but gentle affection that only real men can give is truly amazing! Secretly we think that they are the ones that can handle us in ways we need and want.

Now we can get into some explicit details how we can do things better then some of the skinny chicks out there, or the fact that our tricks can hook a man but we can save that for later. Just know when you see a plus size Diva on the ground doing splits, because shes limber don't be surprised! Just send two snaps her way and keep it moving.(~~) Or when you hear or see a +size Diva in an amazing alluring outfit that simply hugs and hits all the right areas all at the same time, there is no need to hate, simply keep the comments to yourself and keep it moving.

I think its great to explore our sexual adventurous side with your partner. Trying new positions, new tricks, new lingerie, feels empowering, and boosts our self esteem in ways that only you can imagine. A new self worth, a new understanding of your body, a new self recognition overcomes you and it could do nothing but uplift you in ways beyond belief. I like to buy locally and support the next woman trying to make it in today's world. I know about this online store and I want to warn you before you follow the link, this is for big and sexy, the ones that don't mind trying something new. Its You Like It I love it (Phuck Me Shop) https://www.facebook.com/YouLikeItILoveItPMSS. Peruse the store to see if something catches your eye.. You've been warned though. Lol..

When I was my heaviest, I mean extremely heavy, I would hate making love with the lights on unless I was laying flat on my back because then the fat would lay down flat then I wouldn't feel so big, but now honey, its doesn't matter if we are upside down, lights on our off, I will get it in. There is one position I don't like I wont name it only because my hubby might read this, but I can feel my fat on my lower stomach going back and forth and up and down. Even though that doesn't bother my husband, it really grosses the heck out of me. (Don't tell him I told you that..) LMAO!

While preparing for my bridal shower this year, I came across a web site that is simply amazing its called Hips and Curves. Here is a link to the web site: http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie.
I like to buy a new teddy or a see through something to keep things fresh and it honestly makes me feel great. Its like I know I'm heavy but its no need to go to bed looking like it too. Its days that its a white tee and maybe some shorts of course, but there are many more days in lingerie.. When there is a new level of love for yourself in all ways, I feel that your partner will do the same! I love how that correlates it does make two people come together as one! When we love us and feel secure our partner feels that energy and reciprocate that good love right back to us. Then something else AMAZING happens at the end, but you have to use your imagination on that one! ~~ (Two Snaps)

Compliments of  http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/

Compliments of  You Like It I love It (Phuck Me Sex Shop)

Holidays? Sometimes a Bummer

Heyyy My Fabulous Divas out there,

Sorry to be gone from you for so long, but a particular holiday never seem to go right........

I have this preconceived notion about Labor Day as always being a bummer on top of all bummer holidays. Labor Day was the time that I had to catch the bus every summer back to Philly, from spending months with my Mom, and my Little Sister. (Sad times) In 1998 my boyfriend at the time, which was the love of my 16 year old life died during a shoot out in High Point, NC. Then in 2004, another boyfriend at the time, died from being maliciously poisoned at the hand of a so called friend. And yesterday 2 people died. One of the younger women that is in our neighborhood, who also is my younger cousin, and actor Michael Clarke Duncan.

So imagine the thought of lost, abandonment and despair every year at the same time. (It sucks!)

It was so eerie yesterday, all I did was watch Long Island Medium on TLC, and tell my hubby repeatedly, how I wanted to have a reading. I really really do though, because there are some folks I would love to hear from that is on the other side. It seemed like death lingered all day until about 6 in the evening. All I could do was somber, sob, and pray. I prayed so hard, I had tears in my eyes. But I am so proud of me though, as sad as I was, I did not indulge in any unnecessary desire to cheat and eat nothing I am truly not suppose to have. (Yayyy me!!!) In fact I lost 4 lbs last week!!! ~~

I remember talking to my hubby, and listening to his story of how he hated Holidays, especially Christmas. Christmas for him, was nothing but arguments and fights and for me it was the complete opposite. Its funny how someone has a connection to a particular holiday and even though some memories are wonderful, we seem to hold on to the ones that are hurtful and overall hold a negative impression in our minds and sometimes our hearts.

Do you find yourself doing this; once this "one" particular holiday rolls around, nothing but sadness overcomes you and you refuse to be anything close to joyous?

I need to find a way to revert this plaque that I have on this particular holiday. I would like to have any Holiday no matter of what tragedies and losses, I endured to be one of happiness and joy. I would like to beam of this bright glow all day, like I do any other day, instead of sob and weep.

I declare Like Independence day, (lol!) I declare, that from this day forth I will have fun and enjoy Labor day as a true relaxing, outgoing, a lot of shopping deals day, that it truly is!!

Do you have an declarations over any holidays?? I would love to hear them....